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Im married. Sometimes I think about who else is out there. Not because I want to get with someone else, but because I just need something .new .and different .and diverting. New opinions. New perspectives. New ideas. New approaches to life. Yeah, I could get that from a guy friend. But there is something about the womans point of view.
Im not looking for sex. This does not mean we cannot discuss sexuality in an intellectual context, but I would hope we talk about other things, too.
I suppose Id prefer to talk to a woman who is also married, mostly because Im a man who appreciates symmetry and balance (but if youre single and still want to respond, knock yourself out).
About me? Well, Im me: husband of one, son of two, brother to one, father to none, friend of the forgotten, defender of the lost and lonely, rescuer of bees trapped in windows, lover of (I have two ruthless cats), aficionado of jazz and classical music, whos soul is sold to the Beatles, who is lonely in the evenings, even in a room full of close friends, who is optimistic in the mornings, and a sometime ingestor (is that a word?) of make-me-happier pills (some it Prozac, I believe), lover of poetry, literature, spirituality, and all things zen, intellectual, artistic, and old school, who loves old movies, dark themes, rainstorms, jacket weather, coffee, and baseball, a fan of Alfred Hitchcock, who knows the rules of perfect grammar and chooses to ignore them (using commas when he should be using semi-colons, for instance), virtuoso of the guitar, piano, saxophone, and drums, traveler of the world, a lost then found then lost again pilgrim, a man of many passions, interests, and obsessions, admirer of the female form, romantic, a man who appreciates flaws in a woman (even physical ones) because he has plenty flaws of his own (even physical ones), steeped in the habits of good hygiene, who smokes a pipe, grows mustaches and beards, drinks , and would go back in time if the technology was available (in fact, the year is perpetually 1946 in my own little universe), a soft but hardened man, a wounded man A very dominant man A sort of strange mix of alpha male and extreme kindness, strength and sensitivity, logic and emotion Im well-read, introverted (for the most part), a homebody, a staunch atheist (de-converted after years as an evangelical ), a Cardinals fan, a movie buff, an excellent cook, a good listener, and a genuinely kind man. I have a good sense of humor and the ability to talk about any subject in a , positive way.
You might be wondering now if I am happy. Am I? The truth, if I had to be honest with myself, is no, probably not. I wake up every day and hope that today is the day that life will get good. When I cant stand any more of that I then begin to wake up every day thinking that "today is the day I will make my life be good." But that never really works because I dont really know what to do. Something is missing. Something isnt right under the hood, I just dont know what it is. Something in my marriage, perhaps, or something in my head. I dont know. On the surface it would seem that I have everything I need to be happy: a good wife, a nice place to live, a reasonably successful career, health but eh, sigh, something is just missing. Sometimes I am tempted to think that the answer is in the arms of another woman, but I know this is not the case. That said, I wouldnt mind a friend. A platonic friend. Im smart, funny, witty, intellectual, competent, and can hold a good conversation on any topic you want. Im seeking someone special. Not romantic, no, but someone to be the next special woman in my life. I have a wife, yes, but for reasons I might discuss with you later on, what I need now is a best friend. Im a gentleman, so you dont need single seniors wants sex encounters 100 free dating sites to worry about me having some hidden agenda. Im not looking to get into your pants. This is not to say that Im not an insanely sexual man, because I am (Im a fiend, in fact), but I dont need to go outside of my marriage for that. No, I dont get sex at home, but I still dont think Im capable of infidelity. What I am capable of, however, is fierce, trustworthy friendship. And Id rather have that with a girl at this point in my life than a guy. So, are you game? Do you want to explore the heavy questions of life with a man who struggles with them as much as you do? Do you want to exchange secrets and share the private thoughts of your mind with someone you can trust but who you wont have to worry about trying to seduce you? Try me. I have a big heart, a level head, and ears that work very well. Im a believer in the lost art of manliness, and that is why you can trust me to be an absolute gentleman at all times. Give me a chance. Im a man worth knowing and a friend worth having.
Just looking for stimulating conversation and intellectual banter, shared secrets, an exchange of ideas, a forum consisting of two, a man and a woman linked by and spirit but not by romance, a pen pal friend confidant outlet what have you. In fact, Id go so far as to say that, after my wife, Id like you to be the next most special woman in my life.
Shoot me an , I guess. But if you decide to do so, put the answer to this riddle in your subject line:
"What can travel around the world while staying in a corner?"
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